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What To Do When Telling A Girl You Like Her

Posted on November 19, 2010

What could be the awkwardest thing to reveal a girl? Her attire is heavenly? She smells like a 1000 roses? She's the prettiest girl you've seen in a while? Not any of these are as difficult or as nerve-wrecking as telling her "I really like you"; which is why knowing how to tell a girl you really like her is valuable to guys.

Really, what's the big deal if you actually like her? And what's the big deal in liking a pretty woman and itching to tell her that you simply do?

There really couldn't be any harm in that, if anything, the only harm would be from her rebuffing reaction after you've just worn your heart on your sleeve--now that must be punch!

But would it be better to be left speculating on what could have occurred had you informed her how much you liked her?

The utmost satisfaction that comes in opening up cannot be overpowered by the "I-wish-I-did's" which will taunt you for not manning up to fearlessly reveal your feelings for her!

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Key Strategies In Flirting With A Girl

Posted on November 18, 2010

For many, you can only ignite the chemistry between yourselves through flirting which draws out those heady feelings and steamy thoughts. It's too bad that you can't enjoy this if you don't know the head from tail in flirting with a girl you like.

Flirting is like the brandy in a cake, without it that tangy taste would be a miss. But if you have preference for the slower, humdrum things in life, then your system is not cut out to flirt, try walking down the aisle!

Not that marriage is monotonous, it only becomes so if you can't spice it up with nitty-gritty things like flirtatious talks with your wife on phone. Flirting also isn't for the mentally inhibited, if you thought you were too old for it, you aren't--you're just too old for life!

Over and above, you realize that it's not a teen thing, or a nasty thing...it's good for your blood - just ask your doctor!

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Sure-Fire Ways To Ask A Girl Out Successfully

Posted on November 17, 2010

They say finishing something is always harder than starting it, and the man that finishes something is more deserving than he who starts it. In some way though, the inverse applies when it comes to dating; seriously, how easy is it asking a girl out on a date? Not quite!

While men don't exactly chronicle all their "first-everything's" with all their encounters--first takeout, first mug shot, first month anniversary, dress worn on first movie--women do!

You can bet your job that the first words you say to her, what to say to a girl is a tough one, the precise words you used to ask her for that first date...she will remember!

The question is, how do you want her to remember it?

If her friends don't have to squeeze it out of her, then you're worth your salt; else if you did a bad job - then you won't have to hear it from others, the rejection will engrave itself in your memory with a touch of shame...

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Reflection – Do You Mean What You Say?

Posted on November 15, 2010

Sometimes guys have a lot of problems communicating exactly what they want. I mean, haven't you ever found yourself in a position where you want to tell a girl that you like her... but you just can't find the words? Instead, you might mention great things about her.. how her hair smells nice or how she's so witty.

All these compliments serve to gently hint that you're interested without actually saying it.

So let's compare what giving compliments does instead of flat out saying: "I like you".

Compliments

When you give compliments, you are actually raising someone else's value. It means you are impressed with that aspect of them because you rarely encounter it. Usually what happens is that you are lowering your value relative to hers, and therefore reducing your chances creating attraction towards you.

Stating your interest

If you can be bold and state your interest directly, you'll usually appear as confident enough to put it "all out there". When hanging out with a girl, you can easily say: "Hey, you're cute, I like you" which gives her no choice to acknowledge that you're interested. At this point, unless she flat out says "no" or reacts negatively, it's on! Usually girls will be too shy to respond to that and they'll usually ignore it... if this is the case, then just keep on going.

Although I advocate teasing, flirting and playing the game of love, I strongly believe that being straightforward, genuine and direct is a great way to be successful with women. Don't be scared of liking women, it's natural and women will respect you for showing it.

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Tough Question: How Difficult Is It To Get A Date?

Posted on November 12, 2010

Depending on which side of the spectrum you are, getting a date can either be very difficult or very easy. It seems that some people naturally attract all kinds of attention while others have to struggle in order to go out with someone.

Why is that?

Well, usually the people that have their hands full with dates are the ones that have a good balance between a busy life and a good social life. you can't have too much of either one.

If you're always out, then it's likely you don't have much going on in your life and your success will fall short when people realize this.

If you're too caught up with work, studying and neglect socializing... then how on earth are you ever going to meet anyone?! Busy people are usually quite interesting because they have a lot to talk about.

As with anything in life... balance is the key!

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